Still can't get google to index my site - what am i missing?

What does URL Inspection in Search Console say for the homepage? That gives the actual reason and saves guessing. The usual ones: discourage search engines still ticked in WordPress, a noindex tag left in from staging, robots.txt blocking everything, or a brand new domain with nothing linking to it. If it says crawled, currently not indexed, that's a quality call, Google saw it and didn't think it was worth adding, which usually means thin or duplicate pages.